MEET VALERIE FRAZIER
About Me
I am a retired U.S. Army Master Sergeant and a Certified Professional Coach with more than 13 years of experience supporting individuals through profound life transitions.
As the founder of On the Other Side of Grief, I specialize in intuitive life and grief coaching, offering compassionate guidance to those navigating loss, uncertainty, and change. My work centers on helping individuals honor their grief while discovering new meaning, strength, and possibility beyond it.
My personal and professional journey has shaped me into a public speaker, trainer, small group facilitator, and author. Through each of these roles, I create spaces where people feel seen, heard, and supported as they process life’s most difficult moments.
I am deeply committed to walking alongside individuals as they move through grief and transition, honoring their emotions without judgment and empowering them to embrace the life they have been given with courage, intention, and hope.
What Makes Me Different
My approach blends intuitive practices with practical strategies, empowering individuals to honor their emotions, make conscious choices, and create personal balance and harmony regardless of the challenges they're facing.
MY EXPERTISE:
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Training and Facilitating the Grieving Process
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Creating Space for Acceptance and Healing
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Identifying The Myths and Misconceptions
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Identifying The Emotions and Phases of Grief
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Supporting and Developing Coping Strategies
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Identifying Roadblocks to Self-Love After Loss
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Developing Strategies That Create New Beginnings
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Providing The Tools That Help You to Survive and Thrive
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Customizing Plans for Recovering from Severe Disappointment
In addition, as a person who practices spirituality, I know that there is a subtle kinetic energy, a life-force energy that is influenced by our moods, our thoughts and experiences. This energy isn’t just physical; it’s beyond the physical; it’s what animates and sustains us every day. A life force energy that extends beyond the body and connects us all to Oneness (a universal energy) that is present in all places at the same time; that is aware of everything and is the beginning and the end of all that is, ever was or ever will be. This is not just a theory; it’s something that you can sense within yourself, especially when you tune in to your body and emotions. It’s a quiet source of love, patience, strength, healing and resilience.
My mission is to help tap into that source and guide individuals through troubled waters, focusing on post-traumatic growth, sustainable change, and the rediscovery of their own power and gifts; to help shift awareness, to shift perspectives to help create balance and alignment with their highest good.
So, you see, you are not alone on this journey, all that ever was walks with you, and together, we can set sail toward a brighter tomorrow uncovering hope, resilience, and the light that still shines in you. You are meant to be here.
What I Am Not
Is a mental health practitioner, in the sense that I’m not a therapist, nor a mental health counselor. I am a coach, an “accountability partner.” I’m not in judgement. I don’t analyze. I don’t focus on why you find yourself in these circumstances, we know why. It’s because something that truly matters to you, something that you are attached to is now absent from this life and you need help dealing with it.